Tuesday, October 29, 2013

Why I'm Not Blogging

I was recently asked why I'm not blogging. The answer is complicated. And long. And I may give the full story some day when I'm feeling chatty. And over this particular hill and before I see the next rise ahead of me. But the short, vague, answer is blogging gives people an opportunity to look into my life and make a judgement on it without engaging IN it. And right now I don't need people in my life that don't want to bother engaging. The road we've chosen is too dang hard to have a bunch of people who think they know what is going on-but don't-judging us based on something I did or did not say on my blog.

I'm not talking about YOU, of course. If you bothered to peek in after all this time, there is a chance that you might really care. Maybe not, but maybe. If I am talking about you, may you feel the wrist slap stinging. I'm too tired to care. Go ahead and make a judgement on that, too.

Meanwhile, some days I hear a song and I think, "YES, this is what's going on." So, for the time being, I will tell our story through song. This is today's version.


Dawn said...

I check in periodically, and all I can say is, "Right there with you, honey!" Keep doing what you're doing. Don't worry about the blog or what people think. (I know, easier said than done.) Bless you.

K said...

Yep, keep on keeping on. We'll all be here if/when you return.

MotherT said...

I check in randomly to see if you have posted anything and to say a prayer for you and the family. ((Hugs))

The Brew Crew said...

My blog is similarly outdated... <3